Am I Really Single? (Editorial Style Edition)

Working through a writing assignment for class (1st Draft)

Smiling; half way caught up in the music, and trying to play the nonchalant role, I spot him. The man that I have been seeing casually for about three months now; we acknowledge each other through smiles and other pleasantries. We both, do our own “thing” and fall back into the lounge atmosphere. That is until, while engaging in some meaningless male conversation with another, my hair is grabbed, tongue forced down my throat, and I, I returned the gesture.

Although taken aback I was mired in the open display of affection; but as soon as he let my hair go, and released my lips. I looked around with wonder— who saw us? Were there any potential mates or dates watching? What signs have I given him within the past three months that he would think, simply think, that it was cool to walk up, grab my hair, and kiss me?

So I had to wonder, am I truly single? And if so, why is he out at this lounge “blocking?” Were the rules of the dating game, not cut and dry? Of course, I found out that these rules we try to create are not cut and dry by any means. There is no form of the human relationship that will allow detachment of feelings and emotions, simply because you are in a crowded environment. Nonetheless, I believe it is paramount when dating, to discuss expectations— then there is a better chance to avoid moments such as these.